There is no doubt that going through a break-up can be a nasty experience, but what a lot of people are not aware of is that alot of times the pain you feel from getting dumped isn’t even because of love. The heartache and sadness people go through post break-up, more often than not, is actually because of a combination of reasons that aren’t even associated with love at all. This is important when trying to get over someone. When you can understand what’s really behind your feelings, you will have better control over them and this can help significantly speed up the healing process …ultimately working towards falling out of love with the person. To better understand this, in this article I’m going to outline 5 hidden reasons why a breakup can cause so much pain. And what’s amazing about these, is that they have nothing to do with “love” or your ex being “The One” or anything like that.
5 Hidden Reasons Breakups Cause So Much Pain
1.Worrying that you’ll be “forever alone”: Whether your relationship was picture perfect or a living nightmare, the feeling of loss is usually generalized in the human experience as painful and depressing. It doesn’t matter if he was Mister or Miss Right; you had already set your mind on tying the knot and living happily ever after. Isn’t that where all relationships go? Breaking-up with someone means starting over, and some people just can’t handle that. “There’s no one else for me!” and “What if nobody else puts up with me?” are a few common questions people ask themselves in this situation. Looking at things from this perspective, it’s easy to see that this particular, stressful idea isn’t tied to your ex at all. It isn’t about the love you shared – it’s about your own personal welfare. As soon as you find that new, special someone, all fears of being “forever alone” will be thrown out the window.