8. Irresponsibility 
As women we ask ourselves questions about every man we consider giving the time of day. Could we see ourselves being with him for a minute, marrying him? We want to know if we decide to invest time and energy that you’re responsible. That you take care of your business, that you’ll be a blessing instead of just another burden in our lives. If you can’t ever seem to pay your bills but you have three flat screens in your Cadillac then it ain’t gon’ work!